You can't force, trick or make a man fall in love with you. There isn't a technique to master, a workshop to sign up for or online class to take. And really why would we want this? Do we think so little of ourselves that we need to 'trick' a man to fall in love with us?
I want a man who has options. A man who chooses me over many other lovely, beautiful women he has opportunity with. A man who knows what he wants, knows who will complement him, and a man who is ready to open his heart. A man who is aware of his strengths and his weaknesses.
I don't want to trap a man, trick a man or feel like I need to do something not authentically me to KEEP a man. If a man doesn't want to be with me, he can go. If I don't make his life better by being in it, he can go. If he feels that by being with me he's giving up a chance to have someone better, he can go.
If I've done my work, if I continue to work on 'my stuff', if I take on what's hard versus what's easy, if I'm living each day to the best of my ability, if I'm able to let go of perfection and accept who I am and where I'm at.... That's enough.
So how do you 'get the guy?'
Let go of the past, do your work, fall in love with you first, set your standards and believe you deserve magnificence.
Be the best version of yourself so you are in a space to attract a magnificent man. It's really that simple no technique required.
