Hello friends and coffee lovers.
I am not a dating expert, and I never planned to meet someone in a coffee shop.
Come to think of it, this experience should be listed in the 100 things we should do before we die....
A coffee shop for me is a special place, I wish I had a monopoly of reason to talk about the collective feeling, maybe it's a common sense conception, I don't know, but when I have to resort to a freely licensed image bank, the pictures show mostly bright places, with glassware, combination of sofas, chairs and tables, white walls and light blue shades, modern and minimalist designs, cozy spaces, graphic description of a recurrent pleasure, almost a basic need, chatting, reading a book, going for that unforgettable coffee with that secret sensational ingredient that everyone wants to decipher.
I can imagine myself there with Anglo music with low volume, it could be Stevie Wonder calling a special person to tell her that he loves her, because love makes the world go round.
Well, according to my experience, my vision and stimuli, I will now tell you in which situation it is wise to choose a coffee shop for a date and also when it is wise to study another option.
Study your intentions, take the suitor to your field.
If you like coffee, chatting, reading, you are a fan of cult movies, you are a record collector, your phone has more music than contacts and your companion you met at the philosophy club at university, well I tell you that the coffee shop is not only ideal, but it will be unforgettable, be sure to bring the phone to full battery so you can immortalize the moment for the memory, probably become your favorite place.
If it is a Tinder date, in complicated to predict the panorama, there the surprise factor will be decisive, the traffic of serene people and in their business, can help to disinhibit, betting on coffee is always a success, our drink along with chocolate form the select group of hobbies of pleasure and universal good taste, but, attention, Tinder people like to address the target and go to work.
There are spontaneous and charismatic people with a natural talent for humor, like Jim Carrey, the success of the coffee shop as a place for dating, could depend on the lunar phase, the histrionic personality could adapt to the situation or, on the contrary, the decibels of his voice, could invade the harmony of the other users, perhaps an outdoor park would be a better option.
Now, to conclude, if you are invited to a coffee shop, that person wants to talk to you, connect, it can be trivial or deep, but knowing your vision, what you have to say is complementary or goes beyond the superficial, a dessert, a coffee, flow, have a good time, fortunately, the starting point of a great story.
This is my participation for: Coffee Conversation N° 3.
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