Often we think we lack or lag in achieving certain life goals when in reality, such perception is awry. Let us look at some life matters.
When your mates are building their houses and you have not built yours because you cannot afford to, you feel depressed. However, that N10,000 you would have used to buy a land in 1996 and could not afford becomes the 10 million you could spend without blinking an eye in 2021. By now, your friends' houses are old-fashioned and they are thinking of how to renovate while you have a brand new house with the state-of-the-art accessories
Your friends are getting married and everyone is on your neck asking you to speed it up, telling you to just 'find something to do', when they are getting divorced or pretending to be happy, you are on your path to an enduring relationship that will give you peace and relative joy
You are married and you see overly romantic posts that make you detest your spouse who, to you, is a nerd that 'knows' only work but cannot put up romantic posts on social media, you are on your way to the greatest fraud in human existence: believing what you see on social media. Most times (not all the time though), overly romantic public gestures are signs of shallow private connection. Never look at your marriage or relationship from someone else's perspective
You are not yet in the university, your mates are about to graduate and you are contemplating suicide or falling into depression, always remember that those that will employ some of those friends of yours are still in JSS One. Life is not lived on a queue
#bosewunoluwalounsola
(God Works in a miraculous ways)
IN CONCLUSION
When you think you lack something or that you are lagging behind your mates, always remember that life is not a queue and that it turns at will. May your time come speedily and may it last incredibly.