Well it’s more terminology than structure. No one knows what anyone is doing or how badly they need the money or what people are going through in their personal lives.

The terminology though is more that it’s about someone threatening you from a position of power to do what they want you to do or risk some form of punishment be that physical / mental or by taking something from you.

I do agree with you though if you can be totally free from attachment to anything you wouldn’t care if they taunted you, hit you or took from you and ironically is likely when the bully loses all power anyways, as their only form of actual power is fear. Once that’s gone they have nothing. I think these are important topics. What is nothing to you is something to another and vice versa.