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Texting is generally a doing of leisure time and is done when you are idle. Texting is like a digital version of letters where you don’t have to wait for days or months to receive replies and you don’t have to write long paragraphs as well. Through the exchange of written words, you can convey your message and feelings. The addition of emojis has further added fun to texting.
Initially, it was used for chatting between loved ones who were far apart and wanted to remain connected but couldn’t remain on call for long so texting was an easy way of connecting between them. Then it became a source of communication between friend groups well where they could communicate effectively like they used to do physically. Chit-chat and gossiping are generally the hot topics of texting.
There are three types of persons i.e. one who prefers and likes texting, second who prefers calls over texting, and third who neither mind texting nor calls.
I am the type of person who falls into all the categories depending on conditions. If the next person is one with whom I like to communicate I will keep on texting him without getting bothered but if I am not comfortable I try doing things that may annoy him so that he can himself say goodbye. Lolz
While texting first thing that I try is to comfort another person through my mode of text so that he doesn’t feel like a burden on me. Many people have a bad habit that if the message they send remains unseen for many hours, they delete it. I avoid this act. If I text, it means I want to talk. I will wait until that message is seen no matter how many days it takes. Even through texts I try to show how much another person is important for me. As this is not what I do with all.
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Secondly, during texting, we must try to understand the mental condition of another person. Although, someday you can’t judge anyone’s mood or feelings just exchange of few words I belong If done with adequate intention, you can even judge personality. I don’t know if it’s bad or good but I have a habit of mind-reading. I try to read people and if I get to succeed in it I behave to the next person according to him. In this way, I become able to forge good relations.
Another important thing that I keep in mind while texting is not breaking communication rules. Often interruption gives the appearance that the next one is not interested in what you are saying or telling and this may disconnect the communication. I prefer hearing people. I let them complete what they want to say before I comment on it.
Productive texting has always been mine property. There are some topics on which I prefer texting. I avoid doing useless chatting that makes no sense. Texting can be source of enhancing knowledge as you can exchange viewpoints. And this is where I am very much selective about text partner. A gossip with an intellectual is far better than a lecture with an ignorant.
Texting is sound and unhealthy in the same time. Many waste their time on it. It is good to text in idle time rather repealing the obligations just to chit chat. Taking care about the comfort of partner is also very much important. Even through texts we can share our feelings and even through texts we can heal someone. Only thing that matters is way of texting which ultimately depends on to whom you are texting with.
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