"We have been living in country that doesn't permit "homeschooling","

I'm now thinking about how I should say it, in principle it's of course correct, but also not entirely. As is the case in Germany, there are obligations from which you can free yourself, for example from compulsory schooling. I don't want to recommend this at all, but I would just like to mention: Although you basically have to go to school, you don't have the right to go to school - so what do you have to do and that's not theoretical, there are definitely cases: quite simply: You "just" have to behave so badly at school that the school excludes you from attending school. In the first case, this will probably only happen for a few days, maximum 2 weeks, but if you repeat this a few times you will be excluded from attending school and this means that compulsory schooling ends.
By the way, this option used to also be available for conscription: you simply had to join the NPD and of course mention this when you were enlisted and you would not be accepted by the Bundeswehr, meaning that you would no longer have to do military service!
This is Germany life!!! Anyone who behaves badly enough is released from the duties to which those who do not behave badly enough are subject.