I love true friendship I can sacrifice alot to keep a friend...I can empty my account for a true friend I did that before but the question is that can they do thesame for you? I love humanity sometimes I wish if only is possible to take away people's problems and put smiles in their faces but I'm not God to do that.
Friends makes the world beautiful and loveable to be, in a world of no friends I wonder how it will be boring with no fun of course! I love friends been around them makes me happy and cheerful going out creating memories and bonding together. With my past experience with friends having them would have been more difficult for me but I don't judge people base on my past experience, I believe everyone is different unique and awesome in their own ways. I can't imagine my world without friends...they are fun filled with vibes who wouldn't want that? Lolz even in my worse days I can fight to keep them around, to me they are dear to my heart and I cherish every moment I spent with them... in them I find solace my ally in most times.
But the question still remains is it just one person making it?
I will say yes in my own end no doubt when you have a good friend the person will have your interest in heart and will strive to pull you through in your difficult moments. that one selfless friend who will want you to make it together with him/her that idea or notion of let's succeed together let's help each other.
So far I haven't been lucky with friends they want more from me and less from them...it has always been me giving and sacrificing all the time and at the end of it get ignored for no just reason or due to minor misunderstanding that could be settled as friends. My social network won't have my back when things are bad they are not a shoulder to lean on infact is just every man on yourself the only thing they can do is to encourage you that everything will be fine...how can everything be fine when you don't help people in need? Even when they have millions they pretend they don't have much to offer, they brag about having this or that and how often times they bought expensive things but in your low moments and trouble days they don't care...that hurts alot! When you don't know how to give the little that you have even when you have them much you still wouldn't know how to give.
I hate to depend on someone be it friends or family members for my breakthrough or success, I love to work hard to earn and to succeed in every area of my life with that I can have my self respect and will be proud of myself for coming this far alone...no doubt friends can be a ladder to success though sometimes they see it as a means to compete with each other the results might not be good.
In a circle of selfish friends all they know about is themselves alone and family when you try to ask for help they view it as disturbance or begging turning it into a means of mockery among their league of friends. In a friendships where there is nothing to gain most especially when they care so much about money and intelligence no one would want to keep you as a friend, and I wonder where is that love for humanity. The world is materialistic everything shouldn't be about material things we should be different..is very rare to see a poor man become close friends with the rich, is always the elite with the rich you must have something to offer or have class at least.
To me making my own money is a goal for me. not necessarily depending on someone for a push to succeed even though is common nowadays.
