Emotions can be quite funny and confusing. And the world dare I say it makes it more difficult to understand. The worst-case scenarios; it’s always about love. Many people confuse infatuations, lust, interest for love and usually end up having regrets at the end of the day.
No relationship is blissful. There are ups and downs, times where you despise your partner, times where even seeing them alone gets you all worked up.
It’s a perfectly normal aspect of a relationship and once you can overcome that aspect of your relationship, the relationship becomes stronger.
I have always had this notion that honesty is the best key to a healthy and long-lasting relationship. Mind you it doesn’t work for everyone. The level of understanding people have for relationships differs so am only just sharing mine.
Some go into the relationship just for the financial benefits, the tag of been able to be paired with a significant other, they rush into it especially the young generation (myself included) without actually knowing the basics.
Same thing applies to marriages too, to be able to choose a lifetime partner, there are factors to consider.
Relationships isn’t necessarily for everyone, if you want to be alone, who says you can’t? Besides its all about you and your sanity.
I would rather not be involved with anyone than to be in a relationship where I don’t even recognize myself. it’s all about self-love people. you have to know yourself before you can actually learn to be with someone.
Knowing what defines you, your goals, breaking points, limits and all that.
I love seeing a relationship where the pair are just so into each other, joke around like best friends basically.
Never for any reason compare your partner with someone else cause lets be frank no one likes been compared to another. When in a relationship, focus on your partner, communicate evenly and for no reason bring a third party into it.
Best believe communication is a great asset to a healthy relationship. Most unhappy relationships lack good communication. So, it definitely is not just about communication, it’s about good communication.
When in a relationship do not live to impress anyone, just be you and believe me, that would be your best decision ever.
