Exposing yourself can be a real boundary to cross, but can feel so relieving after you've found the courage to take the chance. I think you haev a nice way with words and I enjoyed reading your thoughts. In october I'll become a father for the first time, and it'll be a real exercise to find the right balance between caring for my son, giving my girlfriend the attention she deserves and granting myself some free-time to do what I want. Interesting times ahead, that's for sure!