These few days I chatted with my college friends, ranging from simple conversations, funny talks to sensitive conversations, after these phases finally ended up with extraordinary chats.
it turns out that being a good listener is not easy, because you have to be able to position yourself, besides being smart in positioning yourself, you also have to be able to understand and see the psychological point of view of the other person.
and from here I know, that to become such an extraordinary person must have a long process, maybe it started from heavy lessons and experiences. such as a seemingly stable family, a stressful environment, friendships that break trust and trauma.
You may judge someone because from your point of view it's not good, but you don't know how that can shape him and accompany him to this point.
