Getting someone on board is hard and it takes a lot of effort to do so. Even if you are using the right materials etc. Majority of us are too focused on the content creation part, especially if you are starting and you know yourself really well that before pasting the content "it should be perfect".

Back then it was my struggle, I need to create a "perfect post" before I paste it here but in the long run I gave up on that idea. I just decided to post whatever comes on my mind now.

Also is your friend seeing some good $$$$ that you are cashing out from the platform? I think, some folks ( me included) would be motivated if I see some $$$.