What is the truth? How is the truth actually created? How to break it? Or is it possible to break it? We live in a strange world where some people want to hear, and some people don't want to hear. Some accept the truth, while others deny it, even though it is true. The goal of our communication is to cover the point of view of the other person's point of view, rather than to listen to the other party. Many of us do not look at a situation objectively; we look at nine out of ten with a judicial eye.
I realize that many things can be tarnished by superstition, experience with someone or something else. If you ask three people what is true to them, I believe you will get three different answers. Why? Because this is their version of the truth. What you have been taught and revealed is true to you. Think about how stories are told when two people are arguing or conflicting. You mean the story of that conflict in the hope that the audience will hear the version of your story, which is true of them. Because you taught them the truth, in all situations, I always try to listen first, but it is not easy; some people are very confident.
I think people don't always listen to learn or understand; they listen to hear and believe most of the time. They pay attention to what you say because they wait for you to tell them the truth. A story always has three aspects, what happened, what you believe happened and what the other person felt happened. How you got the situation or saw it with your own eyes is true because you understood it. However, it is not necessary to determine who is right or wrong.
Two people may feel the same way and tell you a story that they thought was true, but their stories can be completely different. They inform you what they believe to be true. Life is not the same for everyone, and there are no two people who manage it the same way. This makes us unique, making the mind more attractive to us.
One of my favourite sayings is "Let's disagree". It is not right to disagree all the time, but it is essential to clash at the right time. There is no more powerful or less story than the others, and just because your truth is different from mine does not make them right or wrong. We believe differently, and that's okay. We grew up in a competitive society, so it is normal to have competition.
