hurts either way. least i get to speak, and put people in their place. even if ppl act like im out of line for speaking. its the double standard thing if i was a guy it'd be ok. id be righteously angry. but if you say something as a women i just get told im being over sensitive and that ill just alienate people. you almost did it right there, telling me that ill hurt myself. as if im unaware of the consequences.