Una introducci贸n necesaria
Algunos ya estar谩n pregunt谩ndose cu谩l es ese ejercicio que me resulta imposible de aprobar y la respuesta es intentar definir a la mujer o tratar de reflejar en un escrito su significado e importancia.
A partir de lo anterior quiero dejar en esta publicaci贸n mis opiniones en torno a la mujer y lo que representan en mi vida y en la sociedad. Reitero que no aprobar茅 el examen, pero, quiero que las mujeres sepan, que quien escribe se siente eterno deudor de todo su cari帽o y su amor.
Dicho lo anterior, invito a 
El D铆a Internacional de la Mujer
Si usted busca en Google sobre este tema, encontrar谩 muchos elementos que le har谩n entender la lucha que ha tenido que librar la mujer para escalar y llegar al lugar que le corresponde, al que no ha llegado todav铆a.
Ver谩 que esta fecha fue propuesta por una mujer, en 1910 y que est谩 ligada a acontecimientos protagonizados por las mujeres en pos de sus derechos. De igual manera conocer谩 cu谩nto han tenido que batallar para llegar al lugar que tienen hoy.
Es por eso que el 8 de marzo de cada a帽o se celebra el D铆a Internacional de la Mujer, aunque, este es otro de esos errores que se cometen porque no bastan 365 d铆as del calendario para honrar a nuestras mujeres.
Mi definici贸n de mujer
Llevo varios a帽os intentando definir o comparar a la mujer y no logro dar el criterio exacto. He pensado que puede ser como el oc茅ano retador, pero me he dado cuenta de que su alma no puede ser l铆quida ni salada. Otra vez so帽茅 que la mujer pod铆a ser como el aire, pero, al ver los destrozos que es capaz de generar, lo desech茅 porque, a pesar de la fuerza inmensa de la mujer, ella es constructora por naturaleza. Cre铆 que pod铆a ser la luz que todo lo ilumina, sin embargo, en ocasiones ella es capaz de apagarse, para dejar que otros brillen.
Segu铆 enfrascado e intent茅 verlas en un jard铆n hecho flor, en una melod铆a hecha canci贸n o en un texto hecho poes铆a. Nuevamente, volv铆 a fracasar porque siempre me faltaba m谩s de lo que cre铆a.
Entonces dej茅 de intentar definirte o compararte y llamarte sencillamente Mujer.
La mujer m谩s importante de mi vida
Creo que este ejercicio no puedo aprobarlo porque nunca logr茅 definir a la persona m谩s importante de mi vida que, sin lugar a dudas, es una mujer.
Ella me ense帽贸 lo poco que s茅 y me demostr贸 lo importante que son las mujeres y lo imposible que ser铆a la vida sin ellas.
En su filosof铆a de vida me dec铆a que el trato que deb铆a darles era especial, amoroso, tierno. Me explic贸 que, siempre que fuera a tratar, una mujer pensara en ella y lograr铆a entender el trato que merecen.
Pero, lo que m谩s admir茅 fue ver c贸mo practic贸 la bondad, el amor, el hacer bien a los dem谩s y la solidaridad.
Por 煤ltimo, me pidi贸 que nunca maltratara a una mujer porque al hacerlo, el dolor, en primer lugar, iba para ella.
Esa persona es mi madre: mi fil贸sofa primera, mi mejor canci贸n, mi eterna ganadora.
Muchos me preguntan por qu茅 hablo de ella en presente si no est谩 f铆sicamente y siempre respondo que el amor verdadero no muere y su gu铆a y ense帽anzas es para toda la vida.
Otras mujeres importantes en mi vida son mis hermanas, amigas y compa帽eras de trabajo.
Pero, mi esposa es otro ser especial en mi vida. Por esas cosas del destino mi madre y mi esposa se llaman Estela. Por eso mi nombre de usuario es Tonyes (Tony por mi nombre), (es, por las dos estelas)
Significado de la mujer para m铆
A pesar de no poder definirlas quiero que sepan lo que significan en mi vida y aqu铆 lo dejo plasmado:
路 Son la fuerza permanente del hogar porque, para trabajar en la calle, ser madre, lavar, cocinar, hacer deportes, ser esposa y atender una casa, se necesita de una fuerza interior que solo ustedes son capaces de poseer.
路 Representan la luz de la vida porque nos alumbran el camino de manera permanente y nos indican por donde caminar, ante la oscuridad que se presenta en la vida.
路 Ustedes encarnan el amor eterno porque no hay quien pueda amar como lo hace una madre, con esa fuerza y ese cari帽o.
路 Ustedes encarnan al ser perfecto porque adem谩s de ser mujer, tambi茅n pueden dar vida a la vida.
路 Si lo anterior no bastara, son protagonistas del 煤nico dolor que produce placer: Ser madre
路 Ustedes encarnan la fuerza de la vida, la luz del amor, la paz del hogar, la canci贸n del universo.
Puede que no las logre definir como merecen, pero sepan que las quiero para siempre, las venero y las respeto.
Un comentario final
Leyendo esta publicaci贸n me percato de mi incapacidad para expresar lo que representan, pero no me apena porque he entendido que no hay palabras en el diccionario que sea capaz de definirlas.
Felicidades en el D铆a Internacional de la Mujer.
*Nota. He utilizado en traductor DeepL Translate.
Las fotos son de mi propiedad tiradas con mi tel茅fono Samsung J2*.
ENGLISH
A necessary introduction
Once again I am facing an exam that I am not going to pass. I know because year after year the same thing happens. Some may think that I am a masochist and that I like pain and my answer is no, I am not. What happens is that this exercise is necessary, essential, unavoidable.
Some may already be wondering what is this exercise that is impossible for me to pass and the answer is to try to define the woman or try to reflect in writing its meaning and importance.
Based on the above, I want to leave in this publication my opinions about women and what they represent in my life and in society. I reiterate that I will not pass the exam, but I want women to know that I feel eternally indebted for all their affection and love.
Having said the above, I invite
International Women's Day
If you Google on this topic, you will find many elements that will make you understand the struggle that women have had to fight to climb and reach their rightful place, which they have not yet reached.
You will see that this date was proposed by a woman in 1910 and that it is linked to events led by women in pursuit of their rights. You will also learn how much they have had to struggle to reach the place they have today.
That is why every year on March 8, International Women's Day is celebrated, although, this is another of those mistakes that are made because 365 calendar days are not enough to honor our women.
My definition of a woman
I have been trying to define or compare women for several years and I can't come up with the exact criteria. I have thought that she can be like the challenging ocean, but I have realized that her soul cannot be liquid or salty. Another time I dreamed that woman could be like the air, but, seeing the destruction she is capable of generating, I discarded it because, in spite of the immense strength of woman, she is a builder by nature. I thought she could be the light that illuminates everything, however, sometimes she is capable of turning off, to let others shine.
I remained engrossed and tried to see them in a garden made flower, in a melody made song or in a text made poetry. Again, I failed again because I was always missing more than I thought.
So I stopped trying to define you or compare you and simply called you Woman.
The most important woman in my life
I don't think I can approve of this exercise because I never managed to define the most important person in my life, who is undoubtedly a woman.
She taught me what little I know and showed me how important women are and how impossible life would be without them.
In her philosophy of life she told me that the treatment I should give them was special, loving, tender. He explained to me that, whenever I was going to treat a woman, I should think of her and I would be able to understand the treatment they deserve.
But, what I admired most was to see how she practiced kindness, love, doing good to others and solidarity.
Finally, she asked me never to mistreat a woman because in doing so, the pain, first and foremost, went to her.
That person is my mother: my first philosopher, my best song, my eternal winner.
Many ask me why I talk about her in the present tense if she is not physically there and I always answer that true love does not die and her guidance and teachings are for life.
Other important women in my life are my sisters, friends and co-workers.
But, my wife is another special being in my life. As fate would have it, my mother and my wife are both named Estela. That's why my user name is Tonyes (Tony for my name), (es, for the two estelas).
Meaning of women for me
Although I cannot define them, I want you to know what they mean in my life and I leave it here:
- You are the permanent strength of the home because, to work in the street, be a mother, wash, cook, do sports, be a wife and take care of a house, you need an inner strength that only you are capable of possessing.
- You represent the light of life because you permanently illuminate our path and show us where to walk, in the face of life's darkness.
- You embody eternal love because there is no one who can love as a mother does, with such strength and affection.
- You embody the perfect being because besides being a woman, you can also give life to life.
- If the above were not enough, you are the protagonists of the only pain that produces pleasure: Being a mother.
- You embody the force of life, the light of love, the peace of the home, the song of the universe.
I may not be able to define you as you deserve, but know that I love you forever, I revere and respect you.
A final comment
Reading this publication I realize my inability to express what they represent, but I am not sorry because I have understood that there are no words in the dictionary that can define them.
Congratulations on International Women's Day.
*Note: I used the translator DeepL Translate.
The photos are my own taken with my Samsung J2 phone*.