Empty is a mood that is not complete so that while living and enjoying everything still feels something is missing. People often liken this to a puzzle that is missing one cubic, so even though the other parts look good, the void on this side makes it feel incomplete.
Have you ever felt a situation where life feels meaningless? we feel life as if without direction and purpose. We also feel that life has no meaning. Not happy, but also not sad. Even sometimes confused about yourself.
There must be days where you just want to give up, where it feels like you just want to hide behind a blanket and never come out. There must be days where it feels like the sky isn't blue, but it's just gray. Indeed, sometimes there are times when we feel that nothing is right in our lives, it feels like it's all in vain, and when will come a better day than this.
The only need that can make us feel whole and full again is love. Therefore, the only reason we feel empty and empty is the lack of love and love in our lives. But it is not a lack of love from others that makes us feel empty. However, the emptiness comes from us who do not love ourselves. When we judge ourselves, reject our feelings, let our emotions get out of hand, blame ourselves and others for our situation, we will surely feel empty as if life is meaningless.
Basically there are many things that are the factors that cause voidness (emptiness) in the heart. Usually the main factor (primary) comes from within ourselves. The second (secondary) factor that influences it is everyday attitudes which consist of words and behavior. Whereas the last one is tertiary factor which is something that comes from outside this self. That could be because of information or attitudes of others towards this self.
Here are some reasons that might be the reason why the heart becomes empty:
The way that can be done to overcome loneliness and emptiness is to tell the right person. Looking for people who can be trusted and of course want to be listeners for each of our problems. Get closer to the person to get comfort. Unfortunately looking for someone like this is difficult, it takes people who are truly sincere. So it's better to immediately submit to a psychologist. Or you can also get closer and share with the Almighty.
Try to pay more attention to others. Can give more than we should receive. Starting it from the closest people to the people who have further relationships. Over time we will feel the benefits. Their response to that is certainly good and some of them, certainly can provide comfort and that's when we will slowly get out of the emptiness and feeling of loneliness that we have felt so far.
Love and accept yourself as you are. Soak up yourself with love that has actually been given by God to every human being.
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@tjoet