Hello beautiful people, it feels good to be here again. Thank you for stopping by my blog. Back to the question of the day, which says the drastic social change that comes with success. I think people should try to understand instead of judging 🧐. Let me tell you a little story about myself and my friend. So I had this friend back then; we were best of friends.
I could go to her house, and she would come to mine; both our parents knew us as friends then. So she got admission into one of the colleges in the state, and things began to change. She no longer came to my house even while on holiday season, and if she saw me on the road, the greetings were something else, so I left her, though I complained to my sister about her behavior, and they advised I stay away from her, as she now thinks that our level is no longer the same. So I got another friend; we were close too.
As time went on, I got admission into the university, and things began to change between us, like I barely have time for myself. When on holiday periods, we usually don't see each other like that. Now this is not an intentional act, but I just needed to rest, like I need peace. Sometimes when I'm back from school, I don't go out for like one or two weeks. But I didn't know that; that behavior of mine was killing my friend in silence. She thought that I was feeling big for her because I went to the university, and to me that wasn't the case; I just needed some peace to myself. So along the line she started telling people that I'm now feeling too big for her because I went to the university, and when I heard about it, I had to call her and explain things, and she understood me.
Some years later, she got admission too, to the same university, and boom, her behavior too changes not just to friends but to family members as well. She no longer go out during holidays as well, and when they complain to her about her behavior, she apologized to them and explained that she just needed some specs and rest for herself. And she also called to apologize for judging me back then instead of understanding what I was going through. And everything is normal between us. So I think people should stop judging people who are working or too busy to attend to then; rather, they should imagine themselves in such situations. Thank you for reading through.
