These three circumstances are connected, because the more we rely on "the answer is enough" the less we actually learn about the process to get the answer. And just like in life, it is the journey that is important, not the destination. A lot of people are foregoing the experience of the journey because they can jump straight to the destination, without considering that the journey is where they are able to accumulate a lot of value.

When I'm going straight to the point, I think of sex. It's like premature ejaculation or intercourse that lasts too short. However, with adequate foreplay and massage, you can increase both the duration and quality of sex. The real issue here is awareness and mindfulness. The ability to make comparisons. Unfortunately, these aren't sufficient today.