As I just wrote, I went back to your linked posts and it's so clear to see the love in your family. You seem so positive and happy, while on the other side of the screen you are dealing with all of this. Life threw you some big lemons :(
How sad that all this had to happen, I'm sending all the hugs and love I have from Spain ... and as this post is old, I will probably find out more in the new post you wrote what happened after..
My inbox is open for you anytime if you need someone to vent or rant.. Big hugs!
RE: And then the universe took another sh-t