Good day stemians. May you have a lovely day. I'll be sharing you about "LOVE" and how it affects our lives as indivual. Godbless.
is magical and it can never be explained precisely by anyone ,the reasons behind why you fall in love with that certain someone whom you call and treat as "your the one and only one".
Moreover, Love comes in an unexpected moment and manner. It is a cliche' to everyone that love moves in mysterious ways. This phenomena of love have strucked me since the first time i fall in love with the woman whom i can share both my happiness and pain with.
Since love is being talked here, let me share to you fellow steemians how things work out if you are inspired not just because you feel loved by God and your family, but most of all you are inlove with your special someone and you get the love in return.
Isn't it pleasurable and inspiring when you are in love and being loved in return with someone you love the most, is it?
And list starts, here...
Your patience is tested.
An old adage states, "patience is a virtue". Indeed! when you are in a relationship, patience is really tested .It is because as couples you go through both the smooth and bumpy roads. Relationship does not guarantee a full time happiness, however it depends to the both of you on how you handle the conflicts, issues of misunderstanding and jealousy. If you are willing to fight for love's sake or give up easily because things are not happening the way you wanted it to be.
You become selfless.
As couples , you are not only after about your own happiness but also the happiness of your partner.When you are inlove, you become selfless in the sense , that you will learn to give and do the things that will make your partner happy. You will avoid doing the things that might cause the issues of misunderstanding to arouse. As much as possible you wanted her to feel how blessed you are to have her. You wanted her to feel that she has this certain part of being you that is not replaceable by anyone.
You become visionary.
You love her in the past, still loving her in the present and eventually will love her even more in the future. When love strucks the heart of man, you envisioned of having that special someone in the future. You are starting to build dreams for the two of you. However, it doesn't end there, because you start seeing and building the future as real and legal couples in the eyes of God , being blessed bountifully with a family that gives honor and praise for all His wondrous works in your lives.
You learn how to manage your time wisely.
They say, that the best thing to spell love is T-I-M-E. Thus if you really love someone you need to manage your time wisely. I understand, that we are living in this "instant working world" yet time spend with your partner is precious. Time is the only thing you can never regain anytime you wanted. Amidst the hectic schedule, make sure to spend time with her, let her feel that is she is being wanted and remembered all throughout the day. Women needs Attention, Appreciation and Affection. So to those guys out there, let's bear in mind the 3A.
Your humilty is being tested.
Being in a relationships , will sometimes lead to heartaches specially if couples encounter circumstances beyond their control. Arguments are inevitable. These arguments will worsen if nobody will let themselves exercise the power of humility. Being humble doesn't mean, you accept that you are the one who commited the fault about a certain issue rather, it is simply saying that i love you most and i couldn't afford to lose you because of this pride and conflicts that tries to break as into pieces. I humble myself and let's fix it calmly.
You are willing to take risk.
It is whether lose or win. That's the one side of love. However, you should learn to take risk. There might be a lot of peebles and sand on the road that the two of you is taking, love will teach the two of you take risk. Just don't forget to pray for God's guidance upon taking risk and surely He will bring you to a better situation.
You learn to compromise.
Love takes two to tango. You can't do it by your own. Couples have to work it out. If one is on fire, do not throw fuel on it or else it makes the fire worst. Instead if someone is in the fire or in the limit of his/her anger, someone should learn to compromise to lessen the fire. Yes, the two of you love each other, but you have to deal with the reality that the two of you have different lifestyles and upbringing which leads to issues., by learning to compromise you will learn to accept and reapect each other's differences.
You learn to take good care.
Reading "cares" messages is very delightful specially when someone is worried what and where have you been, if you have eaten or not, if you are okay or feeling uneasy with the things you've been through, isn't it? You agree with me , right? When you are inlove you learn to take good care of someone else except yourself. You are after his/her condition than yours. You wanted that person to be okay all the time, if only you could see your partner 24/7 to ensure his state of being. You learn to show that you care so much via messages, chats, calls or any means just to let the person know that you care a lot.
You learn to explore the beauty life is offering.
Being in a relationship takes to you to places where you haven't been. Couples love for each other gets stronger when they bond each other more often. Bonding moments through travelling is the best:)😍Travels make the two of you feel more comfortable with each other and you get to know each other deeply. You learn to explore the beautiful scenery God has given to humanity. Through then, you have discovered that sceneries become more beautiful because you are in that place with the person who means to you the most.
You learn to see the perfection beyond the imperfections.
Nobody is perfect. Anywhere, anytime, this saying is being spoken. Nevertheless, when you are inlove, you can no longer recognize your partner's imperfections but rather love has make its way to convert that imperfections to perfect. I am not saying that love is blind because it loses it ability to see the blemish of that special someone but rather, love sees it but it doesn't mind those imperfections anymore.That is why the two of you are with each other because you have to help each other grow together in all aspects and love each other through thick and thin, paint happiness on each other whenever someone is struggling, and most of all letting that person extra special and blessed , because the two of you are exerting a lot of effort to let him/her feel that he/ she is the most perfect treasure one has given by the most perfect King and Lord of all, Jesus. Only then, you will realize how blessed you are of having the most "perfect"person God has destined your life for a purpose.
The end! 😍😍😍👍☝💞
May you found your perfect gift from above steemians.
