I have respectful conversations all the time.
I am on most discords.

I stand by my statement that you are an asshole self voting 90%+ of the time, like it or not. Before you say you don't lately, you have for a very long time, I looked back as far as a year.

You haven't self voted in 1 month+, because you are declining rewards and I am flagging anything that isn't declined, yet you still have over 50% self voting for the last year.

So there isn't really much to talk about. You made your bed.