Meow, my 6' can opener is definitely a softie, i have him wrapped around my toe beans. I can sleep in his bed if i wish, but mostly i choose to sleep next to the bed, so i can ambush him the moment his feet touch the floor! Sometimes though, i will jump up on the covers and pin his legs so he can't turn over in bed. He doesn't seem to mind it too much though, and calls me his fluffy little lioness, whatever that is. Purr purr purr