In this life, there is nothing you are going through that has not happened to someone on earth before. This life is just like a circus; once it turns to you either in the positive way or the negative way, the only thing you can do is to embrace it and go through that oath with it. Life is not a respecter of any man, and one thing we do not understand is that we only plan as humans, but life works with what destiny has preplanned for us. You will see that in some cases we would have planned something we want to happen in our life, but eventually at the end it's something else that will happen.
Thinking has a little it can do to help us in cases like this because when you just keep thinking to the extent that you get high blood pressure, who will stand on that fateful day to say that I have done it and I am proud of myself? One of the things thinking causes to everyone is that it sometimes puts you in that state of discomfort, and you ask yourself questions on things that do not exist. But one question you need to ask yourself is, will thinking really give us a solution?
I could remember times when I had some issues, and I had to face them myself because no one was ready to support me. I would wake up in the morning and get dressed to go out, but while I walked on the way, I kept thinking about a lot of things because I was getting tired and stressed out, but then while I was thinking through all these issues, I was unable to get a solution to them, which then kept my brain working like it would blow off.
Like I said earlier when I started this post, there is nothing you do in this life that has not happened to anyone before. Yes, I am very right about that because a lot of decades ago, most of our forefathers had faced a lot of issues, and when you go into deep research, you will be able to know that the solutions that were used to solve those issues then are still the same things that will be used now because things are the same and issues are similar to each other.
In my own little way of advice, I will say that when we face any issues, there is always a solution for them so long as we are still living and existing as humans. Problems will surely come, and so will solutions come too. Never allow overthinking to dominate your heart so that you will not be able to see the good things that will happen ahead. Truth be told, this life we are in is not really balanced, and it affects people differently, but still, we still have to stand our ground so that we will not end up in the wrong place. Think in the good way, and you will get a lasting solution to what you want.
