As a human, the best and easiest thing that we can get is to communicate and form bonds with people either people with the same like minds as us or those of different like minds. Forming bonds or creating friendship can sometimes be so hard depending on the way you se it or the way others see it. Friendship is good and fun to do when you are interacting with the right people..
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As a teenager, sometimes building a friendship relationship with people are sometimes hard and the reason behind that is, we sometimes go into a relationship based on some things which will tend to get from the other people and most of the time things do not work that way.
For me as a person I have had an experience of trying to bond with people which end up been shattered because sometimes when you care too much about the ones you call your friends, they end up translating your sincere heart to something else.
I was sometime not a fan of ladies due to this. A scenario of this, and that is why I hardly stop people on the way to talk to them because I don't want to get embarrassed. Ride along as we go. I saw this lady in a restaurant, and walked up to her. Well I didn't talk too much but I stated my intentions to her that I want to be a friend because I admire her kind of person.
What was the kind of person I saw in her. She was looking good and dressed so decent and I loved her outfit. So I told her I wanted her to be my friend probably we could talk mate or be a close friend. But immediately I said this, she snubbed me and looked away. Whoa!! I was so embarrassed and so disappointed 馃槀馃槀 I was just thinking I should disappear from where I was seating but I couldn't.
I never knew it was going to result into that I could have prepared my voodoo to make me disappear 馃槅馃槅.. well, life goes on..Aside having some encounter like this, I have also had some also and I don't try it again because I don't like been embarrassed and I like been myself any where I am..
This has affected many people from forming bonds with people and it makes people long so much to make friends and this affects many people.. Well, sometimes, friends does not really matter and sometimes it does depending on how you see it but trust me I don't try meeting people on the first day. Well I can try it for guys like me because I feel sometimes guys are understanding. So to avoid insult I do stay on my own and form bonds when ever it comes on a neutral ground.
Be wise before making friendship bonds, sometimes it might not work out as we want be no problem, life goes one馃槂馃槂..