Yes for many years I have adopted what the animals do... live in the now.

Just do it, don't wait for that special moment, that special occasion as you say it may never come and all you have done is wasted chances.
I think that is why I stopped big birthday celebrations too. If you need something then get it, don't wait for a gift. I would rather have a big meal today and a glass of water in two months time, because in two months time that day may never come!

I am glad you girls all had fun, and here is a special appreciation affectionate hug Nancy, because I can.