some wise words there, I find so often people loose out on genuine opportunity of growth for fear of letting their faults be known. Inability to accept what they are or have been in relation to who they want to be or think they are. It is hard to put your pride away and to be completely honest about yourself and your actions. When there's blood in your eyes it's hard to see then wounds you may have inflicted upon those you love.. when you have been a victim yourself and thus as you said the cycle continues. Important dialogue to keep open. Our world needs alot more acceptance of softness and vaunerbility.