We see spanking a child for poor behaviour as abuse now, but giving them medication to cope with the impacts of how they were raised in an environment that left them malformed and misaligned, as a healthy solution.

Really sickening, it's an irony what the world is turning into. With all the things I see going on right now, I just hope and pray that I'll be a good parent in my time.

Home life is missing structure, school life is missing structure, and a huge amount of time is now being spent in digital environments that offer reward incentives without having to do anything of consequence,

This is the root of the problem.
The lack of structure, the lack of intentionality. We're merely existing rather than living. What most people do is live in a fantasy digital world, no more societal values. I keep wondering how human race deviated so far. And worst is that it isn't getting better anytime soon.
It's more like those who recognise the decadence and try to live right will have to fight the society and fight the trends as well.