They are getting more and more mentally ill and weaker to the point that I find it annoying......

Yes they are.

Sometimes I feel like I have no heart with these things.

I think it might be the opposite - too much heart. The belief that people have the ability to control their destiny a little bit even, rather than the belief that nothing can be done. Young people have reduced themselves to being predestined only. "Born this way" applies to more than sexuality now.