I am also investing only in Hive. Still I think that investing in something is already slightly better than just drinking/smoking/druging(?) that money away.

Have you ever looked at investing into something else too?

I am also definitely doing better at the whole celibacy thing than some priests. Even if that celibacy is not my choice.😛

You might be going about it the wrong way. Work on improving yourself and make yourself the kind of person, the people you are attracted to, will be attracted to.