Choosing Parent Options or Own Options In Matchmaking

image source
Marriage is a sacred thing, because you and promise to live and die. Hence, if you want to get married, make sure if this is what you want, and you must believe that he is a game given to God, but if Do not you agree after marriage how? Yes, there are calls from divorce, but it's better if you fight someone, but God hates divorce names, especially if you have children.

But what if your dilemma determines your spouse or soul mate? You want it, but the old man will connect with other people, what should you do? If a dilemma determines a spouse, between their parent's decision or your choice, how do you behave?

Everything in this world must have positive and negative effects. Good things also have positive and negative effects. For example, if you do a charity, you can get a positive and negative money reward in your wallet will go down. Even if God has given your money ten times, but your money is still reduced, is that logic true? Negative and positive effects also relate to parents or spouse choosing your choice.

When you obey the word parent, many positive things happen like:

1. Parents are blessed until the end of life. Knowing, no, there is a hadith which means Gini. "The blessing of God rests on the advice of both parents, and God's wrath is in the wrath of both his parents."

2. The affection between parents and bacilli is a bit interrelated because they need to know it for a long time. Remember, yes, intimacy between them is also important, if parents and children have argued, it will be the end of the word "divorce" is expelled.

3. If there is a business relationship between parent and prospective son-in-law, your meeting will bring blessings. When family activity is so advanced, your future will automatically be brilliant.

image source

It's good if you choose your partner:

1. You know how bad it is, it will be easier for you to adapt by living with him.

2. Since you already know about him, you are less likely to argue.

3. If your family and family do not know each other, you will automatically introduce yourself to the family. In Islam, the extension of Silaturrahim strings is needed.

Well, do you already know positively choose your parents and your choice? Just decide which one is best for you. If you are still confused, try to ask God, ask God. Pray, pray for God's guidance, and after all the effort you have done, bismillah ... make your choice and believe me!

Thanks
Best Regards @tantry