Gender Roleplaying

https://ravishly.com/2015/04/30/should-we-really-do-away-gender

Gender Roleplaying

Introduction

We are living in a world full of standards physically and mentally. We find ourselves doing things according to the expectations of the people around us and the details of our identity. If you are a man, you are expected to possess a great amount of strength and you should be the one who is always fighting. If you are a woman, you should be cleaning plates and wearing skirts. And if you are a born from a rich family of doctors, you should be a doctor too.

Is that how we view community, depending on the expectations of others in order to live?

We are humans. We have different personal views in life. We shouldn't care about what a person wants in his life. If he is a man and he wants to wear skirt, let him be! That's the way he want to live and we should respect each other's decision of living.

But while the humanity grows, the expectations of one's gender are continuously growing. If someone cannot fulfill the expectations on him, he will be judged for his different way of living.

Fighting For Own's Desire

https://www.aarp.org/home-family/voices/lgbt-pride/

There's a debate in the scientific world if sexual orientation is a preference or a choice. Well, it is not a choice of a person to be attracted to a certain gender. The science already theorized that there is a biological factor that may affect a person's sexual orientation. So we cannot judge the homosexuals if they are attracted to the same sex.

Did you know that there is a lot of gays who wish that they are born to be attracted to the opposite gender because the community has a lot of expectations on their manhood? Some of them took suicide already because they cannot fulfill the will of the society on their gender.

Now, those people who are attracted to the same sex or both sexes are marching now for their desires. They are marching for their freedom. They are known to be the community of LGBTQ.

Rules on Colors and Clothes

I just realized something everyday. Why do people consider that pink is a color for girls even it can represent boys too? Some boys hate to wear pink because it is for girls. But there's no rule in colors for a girl and a boy. Even the ancient warriors wear pink too! All genders can wear the colors that they want!

In schools, why do only girls allowed to wear skirts? Some people reasoned that it is because that the girls need to move fast. So boys need to move slow that is why they aren't wearing skirts? In France, boys can wear skirts. So why do people in our neighborhood define skirts for girls even all the genders can wear too?

There isn't any rule for wearing clothes. And if there is, show me.

The Genders At Home

I read an article in a magazine. It states that a better family have its father working for money and a mother cooking for sustenance. That's a gender roleplaying! Well not all families should be like that, the fathers can take care of the children too and the mothers can work for the financial needs of the family. Sometimes, the mothers and the fathers can work together for their family.

https://aifs.gov.au/cfca/publications/family-structure-and-child-maltreatment-do-some-family-types-place-children

The "Era for Gender Roleplaying" is already done! All genders in a family could do everything. The young boys can cook and the young girls can fix a broken leak in the rooftop. Knowledge on doing household chores should be distributed evenly because there's no knowledge reserved only for a one specific gender.

Fighting

We consider fights for boys even girls have the enough strength too to fight. Today, there are martial arts competitions for girls. I am thankful for that because girls can show what they have. Also, girls can play basketball now which is considered before as a sports for boys. Boys can do volleyball too despite of its label as game for girls.

All genders can do all types of sports that they want. There is no rule on gender for every sports and game. We should be giving games evenly to each gender.

Even gays play boxing now.

How We Move

A person's movement shouldn't be judged according to his sex. Everyone has their own will of moving in their own way.

There's a thing shared in Facebook that a person cannot judge a man's masculinity according to his movements. Because the truth of masculinity starts with the kind heart of a man and its respect to the femininity. That's the ideology of everyone!