A long going debate is age gap. There are two dimensions in this debate. On one side, many couple and people believe that they should get marry at certain age and on the fliping side many believe that age is just a number.
I also think that age is just a number. It's life and it's not concerned in which bracket of life you are living. The concerning aspect is that atleast you are living your life with full colors and not making it dull.
Love is not bound in the circle of age. It's age free and limit free. Society always keep a check on growing age of people. Around me, i have always seen people who always come with questions related to age. They set social norm of right age of marrying. If one person doesn't marry at certain age then people start saying 'your age is going and once it will go then you will never find your beloved'.
Actually the main problem is always Society around us which always set a standard for everything. This word society reminded me of a famous play of Samuel Beckett 'Waiting For Godot' in which one character is lucky who is tied with rope and cannot freely move without the permission of his master. Same is the case with many human beings in this society where everyone is bound to societal norms. Breaking these societal lines aren't considered ethical and right. I would say that society actually limits our living.
Love doesn't know any age. Love is related to heart and heart remains young at every age. It is up to particular person wether he wants to keep his heart alive and thrive or just a dull heart. Love is same like garden of spring where flowers grow and die but flower remain flower forever.
Age is just a number. You can hike at the age of 80. You can marry at any age. The thing that matter is that you should be a lively person by heart. I have many examples of this around me. There is a teacher of me who married at the age of 60 as she was not successful in finding someone worthy to marry. She used to say that the day when her heart will ring and her hairs will fly then she will marry to that dream charming hero of her life. At last,she proved by marrying at the age of sixty. She broke the concept of marrying early. There are other examples of having age gap. I think having age gap in love relationships bring a sweet and citrus flavor to relationship where both partners are having different opinions and different directions to follow. Interestingly, when these different things sit together then these blend so well with each other that life becomes colorful and blessed.
You can not walk with other person by holding his right hand in your right hand. You always walk by holding right hand in your left hand. This means that difference is necessary and it's beautiful 鉂わ笍.
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