I totally know how you are having to adjust too. My hubby is 81 and still manages a lot, but he suffers for it. With two surgeries upcoming back-to-back, he will be out of commission for some time. I kept watching him and how I've been having to do it all, and that really put me in a little panic, wondering how in the world will we manage this 5-1- years from now. Wow, it is daunting to think about, so I'm making radical decisions now.