"It's a shame about Phil Collins" and "at least he can't perform anymore", and contradictions to each other. I take it you never got into appreciating his music. I can't ever recall watching Miami Vice either, maybe once when this guy asked me out and called to ask what I'd be wearing because he didn't want to be overdressed, said he was planning on something casual like Miami Vice style, so I may have checked it out to get an idea of how he was going to be dressed. Not that that would have gotten me out of my jeans and a blouse.
Doesn't surprise though in that clip you showed that he called and asked her that question. He knew in his own mind that for him it wasn't, so if it wasn't for him, could the same have been said for her. Sadly that happens in a lot of relationships, they end up not realizing that they love someone for a particular quality or trait they possess but not the person as a whole. One of the more famous examples, actually rather honest opine on it, was Jeff Bezos when he said he was in love with his first wife's energy and ambition. It's not that he didn't love her, he loved a part of her but not her as a whole. More than likely why, in my own assessment from working years in factories, that eighty percent of all men will cheat, ten percent will cheat with the right person, and ten percent won't cheat at all. I was actually quite close when they released a study a few years ago, I think, if I recall right, men who will cheat was in the low seventy percentile, men who have had an affair fell in-between there and a less than fifteen percent rating of men who won't cheat at all. There's a whole matrix of reason's why it's not real, but it's more not real than it is real so the question wasn't surprising, and why divorce rates are so high. Honestly, being in the moment with someone you want to be in a moment with is much more real than spending a lifetime with someone where it's not. Chances are slim to none someone actually gets into that fifteen percent or less.