Like I keep telling you, you make assumptions and accusations on how someone is the way that they are yet you have no idea what their experiences in life has been. I had a phycologist who once said to me I should write a book about my life because nobody goes through all you've been through and comes out standing. A lot of that coming out standing he was talking about was never letting someone come up behind you and keep knee capping you and learning to distinguish in advance from experience who is likely to do just exactly that to you. Now I am at that's just about anyone, actually I've been there for quite some time but people just keep right on proving me right. You've lived your life through the lens of a man, one of the most dangerous creatures on the face of the earth, maybe you should try be more gratuitous toward those who've gained the intuition of that which it takes to survive that.