Opposed to doom, i believe we will be much better off when we find our groups where we will have people we can actually be friends with and have each other's backs.

No thanks, if I am forced to rumble on their behalf to save us all I would, anything other than that it would take them less than a day to exile me to another group. Put me in a room with people for one hour and by the time that hour is up I (for some unexplained reason) will have that whole room arguing about shit we didn't go there to discuss. It never fails so I assume it's something to do with me because I, at that point, am the only common denominator.