"Pretending educating children on things existing is "forcing" or "brainwashing" is called hatred, by another name."

Whose pretending? You brought it up, must be you whose pretending that you have some misconceived right to determine how other people want to raise their young children because you definitely don't have a (and I general don't go there but I will on occasion make a exception) fucking right in this world to tell any other parent what's is or is not or should be considered normal to them.

When I was young my dad was out greasing the top of the back fence during some riots by some black people I never saw in my life. It scared the hell out of me. About four years later we'd moved and my dad, the sicko he was, prostituted my mom out. A black man ended up becoming my moms boyfriend and it wasn't long after that our house was a house of prostitution. I'd often find myself having to scream in the middle of the night when they'd come in my room looking for my sister whose was only eleven years old and thinking I might be her would try and shake me awake. It scared the hell out of me. Many years later in life the group of friends I had had a black guy in that group. We'd go on to be best buddies in life. I even wrote a story about him on here, Three Trees in a Triangle if you'd like to read it. My best female friend was also black. Both are dead now but my experiences as a young child never led to me having the same prejudices many people have, so much so that even after my sister was murdered I practically helped raise her two daughters, back then it still wasn't as socially acceptable as it is today but that was other people's problem not mine.

The moral of the story is you don't always know what you think you know it just what you assume is going to happen.