One: I know low to spell nigerian, of course it should be capitalized but your friend don't capitalize his name. I don't have any confederate friends that I am aware of, I just un-followed someone a couple months ago for saying Eric Holder needed to be strung up by a rope, only he said it much nastier, I don't even like Eric Holder but that's the kind of behavior I deem unacceptable. Two: I am related to black people, my older sister was married to one before her death, had another child prior to that with another black man who went up for adoption. I often times had her kids for extended periods even before I had my own children. Two of my best friends in life were African American before their deaths. One I wrote about here when I first got here, Three Trees In A Triangle. So please do, once again, excuse yourself.