I don't think I'll be clicking on any links from comments that have been flagged to invisible. You never know why some people are being flagged so I hope that's understandable.

I know a personal story doesn't require a link but not all people operate honestly and are just looking for a quick few bucks.

Sounds like the caseworker wasn't the only one who invaded your authority, it would seem to me that your uncle also did while at the same time he invaded your daughters personal space.