Do you think 馃 before lip? |
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While tasting food, we need a tongue, but speaking, we also use this same organ!
Now, today I am here to share the second usage of the organ, which means thing twice before lip!
In our Hindu religion, we believe Lord Saraswati (Goddess of culture and knowledge) stays on our tongues, and one thing in the entire day, would become true!
If I think beyond this belief then also sometimes our speech hits or hurts directly someone's heart;
Because during aggression, we often don't take time to think about words and speak whatever at that time works in our minds!
Strange! But true! Sometimes, we realise our fault, but most of the time, because of our ego, we don't even try to admit it.
Now, for those who use those words, think yourself in the position of that person before speaking. Then you might realise the importance of the tongue!
Once we practice to control on it, we can save various relationships;
We can overcome the mental stress which comes because of regret!
Neither do we take back those words, nor do we forget them!
However, that doesn't mean we will tolerate unethical practices.
We need to understand and train ourselves before using our tongues!
Most of the time, Short-tempered people make mistakes and lose relationships because of instant reactions to some words, which hurts those who stand in the opposite position.
Words have the power to win hearts, and words have the opposite power to make your well-wishers become your enemies!
It all depends on who is standing in front of you and how much that person knows you!
Let me clear you with some examples-
While arguing with our mother or parents most of the time, our parents hurt but then also they don't think bad for us, I mean they don't become our enemies!
While it could be possible in the professional life and sometimes in the friend circle in the personal life!
There are many examples where unexpected incidents happened because of our wrong choice of words or misuse of our tongues!
If you can't love anyone, you can't help anyone, you can't stay beside them in their crisis, then you don't have the right to hurt them!
Even if you did the above then also never hurt unnecessarily!
Before getting closer, I would also try to convey a message to all: please try to understand the intention behind words; if those are for your growth, then take them in a positive way!
How many of you use words or your tongue wisely? Share me through comments!
