My first valentine experience wasn't with my husband though, but I really loved the guy, his name is Bolaji, but everybody called him Burlarj.

He came to my house on Valentine's day, 14th february 2013.

He met my mum at the entrance and he asked for me.

Mama called me, immediately after I saw him I shouted, its been a while since we had contact.

I gave him a sweet hug and he pecked me gently on my cheek, and said "Pretty would you be my val?"

So I smiled back at him and look back at my mums face she smiled at me and I nodded desperately, he took me out, we had fun, went to the shop rite, we also went to the galleria.

That night he engaged me.

I was so happy that I forgot my wristwatch in the toilet when I had to dust my jean due to the little wine that spilled on it, I even forgot my phone with him.

I could have married Burlarj but he died some weeks later from a car accident.

I still feel his pain till date, because I experienced my first val with him.