Pretty easy really. Someone who is butthurt doesn't add to the conversation or respond to a perceived problem but attacks the person instead. they feel by spitting out some inner fury they assuage their ego and can feel superior again.

And what actions are they, should I do some jail time?.. sheesh.., enough.. I really can't be arsed..

Oh you poor little flower .....so put upon ......

I'm not the one that rounded up their mates to attack someone to make themselves feel good.