Hello People!
I am too tired today. Actually, I am tired of being a mom, a wife, a daughter. Especially after having a kid, your own life goes for a toss. Even though I am not the kind of mom who keeps running after their kids but still there is so much to do and I just don't get time for myself.
Somedays I don't want to cook or clean the house or do anything but still, I have to because there are people in the house who depend on me. Although my husband is very supportive and he is ok if I don't do anything but there arises guilt when I skip on things since it not only affects me but others also.
Sometimes I feel like living a day or two all alone. Sitting in my balcony, having tea and maggie, sleeping, watching tv, going for a swim, coming back and chilling on the bed - no worries what my son or husband are doing or what they want. I want a day in my life that is about me, what I need and what I want.
Can this happen after you get married and have a child?
Even though I love both of them to an extent no one can imagine, but I love myself too and i think at times its ok to be selfish and think for yourself.
RE: POB TALK 04/08/2021 - #67