It hurts so much when we are wronged especially by our friends or loved ones.The feeling is excruciatingly painful and bitter.We get erratic emotionally and it's easier to hold a grudge than to let go.Holding a grudge is more like an escape for the pain,sorrow and betrayal that one feels when wronged by people he or she loves or cares about.
Holding a grudge is the very beginning of unforgiveness which is more like a poison which corrupts our whole being.Unforgiveness is much more difficult than the simple act of forgiving when wronged.Unforgiveness lives and grows in us which might create actions which might be so devastating.
TRAPS US IN THE PAST
Unforgiveness has a unique way of trapping one in the past,repainting pictures of how much we were wronged .We cannot move on and experience the beauty of the future because we are trapped in the pains of the past,caged.
BIRTHS ANGER
When we remember how much we were wronged,we feel angry,enraged by the very thoughts of our experiences.And when anger sets in,it grows and matures which might lead into seeking vengeance,going beyond limits to return the despair and bitterness we feel.This can be very terrible because one cannot really limit the power of anger.Anger destroys all things and we might go further to doing much more terrible things.
Forgiveness on the other hand,is redeeming because it's much more easier to let go,forgetting all things and moving on.We break free from the chains and yokes of Unforgiveness when we forgive.It only takes time but one will heal after being wronged if only we are able to forgive.Its worthier and much noble to let go,moving on into the future and saving our souls from the horrible clutches of Unforgiveness.
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