Getting Off Fantasy Or Reality?

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" Resist the devil and he will flee from you. "

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First sex post - don’t get at me bitches - you know you love it. All jokes aside, I decided to venture into taboo (but not so much) territory as it’s something that I find worth being explored and talked about.
We all love a good jerking off sesh, especially one that hits the sweet spot - and sometimes, doing so coincidences with using our most used tab in our history – I’ve named porn.

This billion (if not trillion) dollar industry knows how to keep us hooked and coming back for more. (Fun fact or perhaps disturbing one, the other day I was watching a video in which random people were being interviewed for how much in debt they were in and where their debt came from. One of the person who had the biggest debt of all the people interviewed said she accumulated it from watching too much expensive porn. I died.)

What’s interesting to me is the fact that nowadays, porn depicts what I see as a reality disguised as a fantasy. What we see on our screen while jerking off at 2 in the morning is no longer an ideal to be attained or an over sexualized representation of the act of sex - it is rather a reality that is being reproduced outside the fantasy realm - in the real world.

We have taken these virtual fantasies of ours to a whole other level. Nothing is off limits anymore. Fictional role plays have turned into role plays that involve real people with real statuses and real jobs on the line. (I’m not stating here that people in the adult industry aren’t real people or that their job isn’t real. It’s rather the fact that they are being paid for performing and putting on an act.)

Animalistic sex has become the norm. Brutality is the new sexy. Humiliating is exciting. Swallow it like you’ve earned it – is the way to go at it. Cheating on my husband with his best friend isn’t just another trending tag searched for online. Fucking my step daddy when mommy is gone on vacation isn’t off the charts no more. Fuck any of my inhibitions away please- is the new motto that the porn world has ingrained deep into our minds. We’ve been brainwashed to believe that triple anal sex feels fucking painless. That degradation is hot.

The more one scrolls through the endless stream of sex material there is to be found online, the more one unconsciously levels up his own standards to match the faulty fantasies that are being sold to him. Fantasies aren’t to be kept solely in the one-dimension universe of our mind no more. They can - and surely will - be brought to the 3rd dimension world. We don’t care we will burn ourselves trying to make our naughtiest thoughts come to life. We’ve been shown that playing with fire is the answer.

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