What are the things a man should put in place before getting married?
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5 Preparation Points Before Getting Married For Men
1. Science Preparation
Preparation Before getting married for men the first is preparation of science. The science here includes knowledge in the household style of the Messenger of Allah, the knowledge of marriage, the obligations and rights of the husband, the obligation of the head of the family, the obligation of parents (because later he will become a parent too), obligations and rights of the wife, and others other. It also includes the science of society and the knowledge related to Muslim women is also better if it can be mastered. So that later can direct the wife and teach about other things. Or later after becoming a husband and wife can learn to recite together.
2. Mental / Psychological Preparation
Preparation before marriage for men the second is mental or psychological preparation. For a husband, he should prepare himself more spaciously and with a patient heart. Because later after marriage will live together with the wife who is a foreigner. Why foreigners? Well, because beforehand I didn't know the original character and bad habits. Usually after 1 year of marriage each original character is seen and the habits are not good.
3. Ruhiyah / Spiritual Preparation
Preparation before marriage for a third man is preparation for spiritual or spiritual. As a prospective husband, his practice and worship should be further enhanced to God. Because someday after living with your husband who is responsible for his wife, both are responsible for the morals of the wife and in practicing religious teachings. It would be nice if husband and wife could compete in winning the blessings of Allah. A wife will certainly be enthusiastic in carrying out worship as well as possible, if there is a friend of her husband, if someone encourages her husband.
4. Physical preparation
Preparation before marriage for the fourth man is physical preparation. Physical must be prepared as well as possible. As a husband the responsibilities clearly increase, so the work also increases more and varies. Especially if you later have a child, besides having to complete the main (earning a living), also have to help the housework of the wife, especially in caring for children. Then the energy will certainly come out more.
5. Property preparation
Preparations before marrying for the fifth man are property preparation. Property is important in supporting household life. Although wealth is not the only thing that is the main thing, it will be more important to worship and seek His blessing. But we are told to work hard. With wealth we can do shodaqoh charity more. This is one of the important preparations for male pangantin men.