I'm tired of this deceptive picture, the image that every coach, every Influencer, Blogger, every athlete and star, and those whom we called successful. This image is that we are always successful, passionate, ambitious, specific, know where we are, not lost, full of hope and life and do not despair or fall.
While the truth is that no one is successful in everything all the time, some of us are bad fathers of his children, a husband who is deficient in the right of his wife, a son who is disabled to his parents, a disobedient slave to his Lord who is guilty, and many of us basically avoid marriage and family and any real responsibility towards a close person, so as not to make mistakes, so as not to show his weak aspects to anyone, and live longer in this false image of himself and of life.
Some convince themselves of their contempt for these responsibilities, saying: Anyone can marry or have children and work.
While it is not easy at all to be a righteous son, a faithful husband, a father who exists... Etc.. What we call success in working life and fame on social media I find really easy and possible for anyone, there are "successful" people followed by millions and all they have is only a big butt and flashy clothes and cars. If it was really easy to live this simple, ordinary life of work, marriage and family, you would have lived it.
And I don't know who said that we should always be wonderfully positive, dazzling, and that just makes us more miserable and united, no matter how many followers there are. Yes, I realize that we must help and support others, but I do not see the power of this help by showing only one side and a very narrow angle, while there are thousands of angles for each soul. Showing only one aspect weakens us, and puts a lot of direct and indirect psychological pressure on those who follow us.
We are going through many battles and defeats, there are those who scam us in our money and there are those who abandon us in our time of need. We are going through difficult times, psychological breakdowns, days of despair, months of loneliness, moments of feeling weak and oppressed.
When I said a while ago I will show the weakness I have experienced in my journey, a lot attacked me, you are a coach?, you are a role model?, This is not true, dude.....
I know very well and they know that we are not one side.
When you follow someone, you find him a successful person or has followers or knowledge or fame or money..... When you follow someone's example, know that no matter how much you see and no matter how close you get, you'll only see one corner of thousands of angles......
Don't fool yourself by just seeing the picture, and don't compare your reality to one narrow angle in the lives of others.
Finally, my friend, be kind to yourself, so that you do not load yourself with what you have no energy for.
Your day is beautiful and if it is not beautiful, this is normal, because not everything in life is beautiful, do not put pressure on yourself, and be kind to you.
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Best regards, ✍
M'ssieu Abdo
