Why do they say time heals scars?
I don't think it's always the case. Maybe it's just that in a lot of cases, if you start changing your thinking little by little, then progressively over time, you begin to heal.
How quickly you heal depends on how quickly you forgive yourself and others and change your thinking and perspective (which is what helps you forgive too.).
It's just that it's not always that easy to do so that's why so many of us may start to do it little by little and notice over time that we have been "healing."
Some of us keep stuff locked away inside of us for what seems forever and can impact us from way back when ~ very often from into early childhood or other events we held onto so tightly because they hurt us so much at the time and we can't bear to think of seeing them in any other light ~ the events themselves, the people involved or ourselves.
People are almost always having some kind of inner tensions within themselves, whether aware or unaware of them.
Of course you're gonna have tensions with others and them with you. We're all having them with our freaking own selves anyway, so what do you expect, lol.
So try your best to be gracious and to take such things as least personally as you can.
Remember we are all facing inner conflicts of our own.
❤
@stargreen