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Hola Hola
Mi nombre es Ana Mar铆a Fuentes y lamentablemente sufr铆 de violencia de g茅nero.
Vamos a empezar como cuando entras en una terapia para sanar esas adicciones o lo que sufras en ese momento.
No te voy a decir lo que viv铆, te voy a decir c贸mo sal铆 de ah铆. Creo que es de m谩s ayuda para t铆 que contarte mi historia.
Luego de que yo me diera cuenta que estaba sufriendo de violecia dom茅stica, quise evitar por varios meses que se repitiera la agresi贸n, sobretodo verbal. Acusaciones hacia mi persona que no ten铆an pie ni cabeza.
Al ver esta actitud fue cuando dije que deb铆a salir de esa relaci贸n, aunque pasaron meses evitando una situaci贸n, igual pas贸, es decir, no evites algo que al final va a pasar.
Cuando tom茅 la decisi贸n de irme un d铆a, el hombre hizo lo que yo estaba evitando, un desastre, rompi贸 la casa y no me dejaba salir de casa. Parec铆a una bestia y se comportaba como tal.
Nos sacaron a mi hijo y a m铆 con policias, entre 4 hombres tuvieron que aguantar al demonio que estaba en esa casa. Sin pensarlo, me fui con mi hijo a medio vestir y sin pa帽ales.
Me llevaron a la fiscalia, puse la denuncia, me cambiaron de casa, pero al final, lo que calm贸 todo fue que el hombre se fue del pa铆s y ya no hubo m谩s violencia psicol贸gica.
Es importante que no pienses en irte, al final, lo que estas evitando, va a pasar. No esperes que te maten, ni a ti ni a tus hijos.
Si es de dejar la casa, tu ropa y lo que sea que tengas material, dejalos. Si es de comenzar de cero, comienza.
No dejes que nadie te haga da帽o ni te haga sentir menos de lo que tu eres.
Ese es mi mensaje para ti.
Hello hello
My name is Ana Mar铆a Fuentes and unfortunately I suffered from gender violence.
Let's start like when you enter a therapy to heal those addictions or whatever you suffer at that moment.
I'm not going to tell you what I lived, I'm going to tell you how I got out of there. I think it's more helpful to you than telling you my story.
After I realized that I was suffering from domestic violence, I wanted to avoid a repeat of the aggression, especially verbal, for several months. Accusations against me that had no head or tail.
Seeing this attitude was when I said that I had to get out of that relationship, although they spent months avoiding a situation, it still happened, that is, do not avoid something that will eventually happen.
When I made the decision to leave one day, the man did what I was avoiding, a disaster, he broke the house and wouldn't let me leave the house. It looked like a beast and behaved like one.
They took my son and me out with the police, among 4 men they had to put up with the demon that was in that house. Without thinking, I left with my son half-dressed and without diapers.
They took me to the prosecutor's office, I filed a complaint, they changed my house, but in the end, what calmed everything down was that the man left the country and there was no more psychological violence.
It is important that you do not think about leaving, in the end, what you are avoiding will happen. Don't expect them to kill you, neither you nor your children.
If it is to leave the house, your clothes and whatever you have material, leave them. If it's starting from scratch, start.
Do not let anyone hurt you or make you feel less than you are.
That is my message to you.
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