Don't be deceived, don't allow people to capture your mind, you can take your money, you can take your status, you can take your glory, but the moment you allow people to capture your mind, then it is over for you, your mind controls everything, your way, the way you act, your habits, your character, the mind controls what you want to do at any point in time.
Once your mind is captured by others, they will control it and make you feel what you want to feel at every point in time, which you don't want.
Always keep yourself in that place where you can adjust to anything and no one can really hold you down.