When Shiva start's dancing no power can stop her , It's wise to follow and not try to lead , for she will destroy everything in her path . Would i follow her in her dance when she invites me to do so ?
Tough question , i am a peaceful spirit , i can feel the pain of destruction , it's the last path i will look for . I can only say , Shiva has bin kind and honest to me where ever i met her .
I wish you wisdom in your decisions and journey .